Are you counting on your Friend or Foe?
Ever wondered after reaching to the top of the ladder you are alone or there is someone with you; someone close to you. Whether or not you are at the right place but my knowledge says that more top you are less nears and dears you have.
Reaching at the top is dream of each and every individual. The scenario nowadays is such everyone at home is busy with their own life and house is a synonym of hotel now where you come in evening and leave in morning with your so called second family ‘Your Office’. And there you have some close friends; few enemies and very few with whom you are free and may be at ease to talk anything under this sun. But isn’t it true that office friendship is sometimes limited to office threshold only; moment you leave office you are out of touch. It may happen the very next day you meet that person or not; one day he will probably join somewhere else and will be with some other colleagues.
People in your life other than your family are there any one else who is happy to see you as you are? Happy to accept you as is? Everywhere there is competition and race to leave you behind. Nowhere it’s written that you can be friends only with your age group or your own sex colleagues; it may happen that you are close with someone elder or younger to you and of the opposite sex. It doesn’t matter who the person is; from which area he belongs; what matters is; is he the right choice for you as a secret sharing person? Is he the right person with whom you can feel comfortable talking what you want? Is he the person who will not ditch you? Is he the person who will not bitch at the back of you? Any many more such questions will occur but finding the right gem of a person is your job only. The decision is all yours; good or bad; positive or negative anything can come your way. But deciding on a friend or foe is your stand.
Sometimes it may also happen that your friendship is not acceptable by other people around you or per say in your life but balancing between a friend for whom you have faith and whom your other well-wishers hate becomes very difficult. It also depends of his reputation in your office and outside. Every time; everywhere money is not the only way with which you can measure your friendship; there’s something else also; there is a bonding that works between two of them, a long-lasting bonding.
I don’t know about myself; whether I have got some or not or whether I will get some any time; but the crux here is that it’s my choice always what I choose or loose; decision is all mine. Friendship can never be one-sided its collective; I am thinking whether or not I have got the person standing with me hand in hand and saying that you don’t worry I am there. I am your friend; more than any one else in your life more than your family; love anyone else……but my place is somewhere other than all these……I am with you always.
Reaching at the top is dream of each and every individual. The scenario nowadays is such everyone at home is busy with their own life and house is a synonym of hotel now where you come in evening and leave in morning with your so called second family ‘Your Office’. And there you have some close friends; few enemies and very few with whom you are free and may be at ease to talk anything under this sun. But isn’t it true that office friendship is sometimes limited to office threshold only; moment you leave office you are out of touch. It may happen the very next day you meet that person or not; one day he will probably join somewhere else and will be with some other colleagues.
People in your life other than your family are there any one else who is happy to see you as you are? Happy to accept you as is? Everywhere there is competition and race to leave you behind. Nowhere it’s written that you can be friends only with your age group or your own sex colleagues; it may happen that you are close with someone elder or younger to you and of the opposite sex. It doesn’t matter who the person is; from which area he belongs; what matters is; is he the right choice for you as a secret sharing person? Is he the right person with whom you can feel comfortable talking what you want? Is he the person who will not ditch you? Is he the person who will not bitch at the back of you? Any many more such questions will occur but finding the right gem of a person is your job only. The decision is all yours; good or bad; positive or negative anything can come your way. But deciding on a friend or foe is your stand.
Sometimes it may also happen that your friendship is not acceptable by other people around you or per say in your life but balancing between a friend for whom you have faith and whom your other well-wishers hate becomes very difficult. It also depends of his reputation in your office and outside. Every time; everywhere money is not the only way with which you can measure your friendship; there’s something else also; there is a bonding that works between two of them, a long-lasting bonding.
I don’t know about myself; whether I have got some or not or whether I will get some any time; but the crux here is that it’s my choice always what I choose or loose; decision is all mine. Friendship can never be one-sided its collective; I am thinking whether or not I have got the person standing with me hand in hand and saying that you don’t worry I am there. I am your friend; more than any one else in your life more than your family; love anyone else……but my place is somewhere other than all these……I am with you always.
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